The Snare

When we think about living a life of detach- ment, it is easy to conclude that detachment from things is the only issue. However, one of the biggest struggles that we must all face is the detachment from others. That is.... the detachment from their opinions of us, our need for their approval, the need to be understood, and the need to be right. We can become so afraid of what others may think and say about us, that we forget to be who we were truly created to be.... ourselves, created in the image of Love. "The fear of man brings a snare, but he who trusts in the Lord is safe." (Proverbs 29:25) We were created to love others, but we were not created to live our lives in such a way that we cease to become our authentic selves. We must each live by our conscience, following the guidance of the Holy Spirit in all things. When we live our lives in the ways that God leads us, we most certainly risk not being liked or understood. To some, we may become their "kill joy". However, if we are truly living our lives filled with joy because we've submitted to a deeper understanding of love, our lives will become very attractive to those around us who are struggling themselves. May we all be courageous enough to take an honest look at ourselves, do a daily Examination of Conscience, and persevere in living the life to which we were called....one of Holiness (to love like God).